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I don't get it

How can someone so kind and near perfect be treated like that.
How can someone who looks decent enough be such a bastard.

It's so frustrating, really.
But what can we do?
Accept fate and learn to let go like you said or fight for what you deserve I thought?

At times, I really don't know what's exactly the right way.
It's like no matter which side of a coin you flip to, you get a different image, a different story.
And how do you know which side is the better one?
You don't.
You just suck it in and move on.
Ya, like how you tell a child who has fallen to stand up and walk again.
Like how you tell a child to stop crying by perhaps giving him/her a candy.
But we are all adults.
Adults who take a longer time to stand up and walk again.
Adults who probably won't stop crying no matter what.
And who set the rule that only adults have to deal with these?
I don't get it.

It's like someone with so much good karma can have such fate then what's gonna to happen to us? The selfish, bitchy, mean us?

Whatever it is, I wish you have the strength to continue this journey.
I hope your boys know the ugly truth and are able to tell what's right and what's not.
I hope and I know he will regret this one day. For he doesn't know how lucky he has been to have you and how (I'm sorry to say this) horrible his next life is going to turn out to be.
Doesn't your God always tell you about the 'right' things?
What happen to those church sessions?
I don't get it, how can you even pray in peace?
Didn't your mum teach you right?
I don't get it, does she know you're like that?
How did someone whom we call family for years turn out to be someone so disgusting that I feel it's a sin to even mention your fucking name?

I wish you weren't there because you don't value marriage and certainly don't deserve to share my or our joy. Now, I don't even know if you were even sincere that night and even the past years. Maybe not, ha.
I wish you don't exist.
I really want to curse you but I know it's bad and it's not worth accumulating bad karma because of you.
And I must remember that I don't need to do much because you will get your punishment.
Let's just wait and see.

Why do the women in my family seem to have it the harder way? Nevertheless, I still believe in love, marriages and whatnot and as much as Mr. Grumpy is flawed, I do think I'm lucky to have him in my life (except when he makes me angry). Who knows? Things may change years later but for now, I enjoy what we have and I hope couples are there feel likewise too.

If I can let you have part of my happiness, I would.
And when I can't, I hope I can give you the strength and support you need to continue walking.

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