You can love someone else and even start your new family but you can't do so when you are STILL married.
You can be happy (in your own sinful world) but you can't jeopardise others' happiness.
You can make mistakes - who doesn't? - but you can't just disregard them like they are not yours.
You can be the greatest actor but you can't take advantage of others' soft-heartedness.
You can lie and sin further but you can't fool the whole world and escape your utterly bad karma.
You can stop loving your partner one fine day but you can't be dragging a loveless marriage for fucking 20 odd years - either you have been happily cheating all these years, getting all the love you don't at home or you're just a heartless bastard. I guess both apply to you.
You can stay (unhappily) married for 20 odd years but you can't wait to end it immediately when it's to your advantage, reads money & 2nd marriage? BRILLIANT.
You can bring your dead parents into the picture but you can't blind us because we were there, both times and in fact, all these years.
You can deal with the physical pain but you can't compare that to the emotional pain someone else is going through all thanks to you.
You can be in actual pain but you can't get any pity, at least from me.
You can blame it on your parents, on your only-child life, on the personality clashes and whatnot but you can't use these as your please-feel-sorry-for-me lousy excuses forever. Whoever fell or falls for those excuses will have to wake up eventually.
Whatever happens today is your choice.
You chose to marry this person.
You chose to cheat, not once, not twice but god knows how many times.
You chose to continue cheating even though you were forgiven.
You chose to ask her back when she left. Why didn't you just let go?
You chose to spend all your money so why ask for money from others now and worse, get others to shoulder your debts? No one owes you anything.
The more I type, the more my blood boils! I shall end soon...
If you're a woman reading this, I hope you won't suffer the same fate because we are always on the losing end. No matter how bad a man is, somehow, somewhere, someone will accept him. Yes, like WTF? And women? Once badly hurt, chances are they will take a long time to heal, maybe never.
If you're a man reading this, don't even bother disagreeing with me.
I hate cowards.
If you have done it, admit it.
If you are afraid of losing, treasure and not take things for granted.
If you can't bear the consequences, don't do it and leave the shit to others thereafter.
I fear for you really. How are you gonna bear the karma?
But there won't be any pity.
The last I can say is 'good luck'...
And hope I won't bump into you ever again.
You can be happy (in your own sinful world) but you can't jeopardise others' happiness.
You can make mistakes - who doesn't? - but you can't just disregard them like they are not yours.
You can be the greatest actor but you can't take advantage of others' soft-heartedness.
You can lie and sin further but you can't fool the whole world and escape your utterly bad karma.
You can stop loving your partner one fine day but you can't be dragging a loveless marriage for fucking 20 odd years - either you have been happily cheating all these years, getting all the love you don't at home or you're just a heartless bastard. I guess both apply to you.
You can stay (unhappily) married for 20 odd years but you can't wait to end it immediately when it's to your advantage, reads money & 2nd marriage? BRILLIANT.
You can bring your dead parents into the picture but you can't blind us because we were there, both times and in fact, all these years.
You can deal with the physical pain but you can't compare that to the emotional pain someone else is going through all thanks to you.
You can be in actual pain but you can't get any pity, at least from me.
You can blame it on your parents, on your only-child life, on the personality clashes and whatnot but you can't use these as your please-feel-sorry-for-me lousy excuses forever. Whoever fell or falls for those excuses will have to wake up eventually.
Whatever happens today is your choice.
You chose to marry this person.
You chose to cheat, not once, not twice but god knows how many times.
You chose to continue cheating even though you were forgiven.
You chose to ask her back when she left. Why didn't you just let go?
You chose to spend all your money so why ask for money from others now and worse, get others to shoulder your debts? No one owes you anything.
The more I type, the more my blood boils! I shall end soon...
If you're a woman reading this, I hope you won't suffer the same fate because we are always on the losing end. No matter how bad a man is, somehow, somewhere, someone will accept him. Yes, like WTF? And women? Once badly hurt, chances are they will take a long time to heal, maybe never.
If you're a man reading this, don't even bother disagreeing with me.
I hate cowards.
If you have done it, admit it.
If you are afraid of losing, treasure and not take things for granted.
If you can't bear the consequences, don't do it and leave the shit to others thereafter.
I fear for you really. How are you gonna bear the karma?
But there won't be any pity.
The last I can say is 'good luck'...
And hope I won't bump into you ever again.
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